I am a nomad and have always had a keen interest in learning about different cultures, attitudes, and beliefs. Having grown up in a conservative family in the Midwest, I always yearned to understand the larger world outside of my working-class community. Income and opportunities were always in short supply, but it never stopped me from dreaming about the larger world. After graduating from high school, I did not attend college, but chose to work in a factory. While working at Gunite, I used my first solo vacation to visit a friend in Seattle. Choosing to take the Amtrak train was, arguably, the (third) best decision that I ever made in my life. It was a three-day (northern) run from Elkhart to Seattle and 3 1/2 day run coming back. Given that amount of time on a train, I spent a lot of time viewing the scenery and just talking to people from all areas of the country. It was an eye-opening experience, in that, I was out of my comfort zone, yet feeling the closest thing to absolute freedom, all at the same time. I became hooked and have been traveling steady ever since.
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I met Mary Frances at Ball State University in 1989 and fell in love immediately. We moved to North Carolina for her to pursue a PhD at Duke University and married in 1990. I (after transfer) finished my undergrad at North Carolina State University with a major in psychology and minor in sociology in 1992. I then completed a master’s of social work at University of North Carolina in 1994. After graduating, we moved to Philadelphia. I worked in the mental health field and she became a professor at UPenn’s Wharton Business School. Her job afforded many opportunities for us to travel all over the world; so, I eventually gave up mental health field. We bought into Agonswim in 2000 and I started working from home. The career shift allowed us to travel freely because I could work anywhere in the world. Mady was born in 2000 and Max in 2003; so, we just put handles on their backs and took them with us. I have been to over 100 countries but have spared MFL and the kids from enduring the full load. Thus, I do not mind traveling solo (sometimes) and appreciate her for allowing me to pursue my passion.
I have always dreamed about driving the Pan-American highway because it always sounded like a grand adventure. I have floated the idea over the years, but no one seemed interested in going with me (especially MFL). I just decided to do it myself and started planning a few years ago. With the help of my brother-in-law (Joe), who built a car from a rusted frame, I finally cemented my dream. My plan is to hit central Mexico’s colonial towns with its rich history and culture. I want to feel and experience everyday life in Mexico, while surrounded by some of the oldest buildings and sites in North America. While I was planning this first part of the trip, I received an unexpected phone call from a friend. Rick Staelin expressed an interest in joining me for part of the journey, which was immediately welcomed. I am elated to have such an esteemed fellow traveler join me. Thus, I will be meeting him in Guatemala and finishing in Panama. Rick probably does not know what he is getting into, according to MFL. Regardless, I will drop him at airport in Panama City and then drive to Costa Rica to leave the car with my old college roommate, Eric Jackson. I will fly home from San Jose with thoughts about the next grand adventure…the best place I have ever been, is always the next place I am going!